You know the importance of this day. It’s the first time you are spending alone with your wife and a remarkable beginning of a new era of your life. Among many who are still not able to get wedded due to so many reasons you are one among the lucky slot to achieve it. Isn’t it a great opportunity to thank God? Hold hands to together, read the Bible and thank God who made this entire thing possible. Commit your family life to God and promise to keep Him the head of your family. There’s no joy than to give glory to God for such a happy moment in your life.
Do not hurry.
Sex is often mistaken with intercourse. Sex doesn’t always mean inserting the genital. It starts with loving your spouse physically with all your mind. You need to admire your spouse, touch, massage, kiss passionately and most importantly make her feel that she is important. Hold her firmly and instill the feeling that she’s secure within your arms. So on day 1, you might have to talk a lot by staying physically close to her. You could hug her from behind or wrap your arms around her waist while talking. This gives her time to get used to physical contact. Generally this leads to closeness so you may end up hugging tight after a while. Once a while kiss her hands while holding it.
Kiss on Forehead
During the conversation, once a while kiss her forehead. Generally because your wife is shorter you could easily reach her forehead. Carefully notice her reactions to your first kiss. Some may shy away whereas some do not show the excitement and would keep talking. If you feel she is comfortable, go ahead and increase your frequency of kissing. Move forward to start kissing her cheeks, chin and nose. Please spare the lips for sometime…do not rush; play cool. When I say kissing, kindly make sure you keep yourself basically clean without bad breath and perspiration odor. Also don’t spray strong scents. These are stinkers that generally spoil the enjoyment of sex. Brush your teeth and take a shower before. Wear light clothes.
Kissing on the lips
There is no hard and fast rule to do this. But there are definitely don’ts that you have to be careful with. Follow you own style…be gentle. Don’t rush or be too hard. Haven’t you heard, “slow and steady wins the race”? Smooching is the common term for kissing on the lips. Smooch as much as you can as long as your spouse feels comfortable. Once a while consider her cheeks also. The ears and neck are very sensitive and play a vital role. Smooch her ears and neck gently.